Discipline.
Brotherhood.
Faith.
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.”
Marcus Aurelius — Meditations
You are the average of the 5 men you walk with. Make them 4 brothers in Christ and God himself.
Men are more connected than ever — and more alone than ever.
of men have zero close friends
higher suicide rate among men
of men satisfied with their friendships
Three steps to your brotherhood.
The Assessment
5 minutes. Life stage, personality, values, vibe. We learn who you are so we can find your brothers.
The Match
Placed with 4 men who share your season, your depth, and your drive. Within 30 miles.
Stoke the Fire
Land in a group chat. AI drops prompts, challenges, leaderboards. Strangers become brothers.
What It Looks Like
This week’s challenge: Wake up at 5am every day. Cold shower. Log it.
Day 1 done. 4:58am. The water was brutal.
I hit snooze three times
Then set 4 alarms tomorrow. No excuses.
Bet.
Your group’s discipline score is 91. Ranked #3 out of 83 active groups.
Every week is a campaign.
Intention
Set the week. Share what you’re working on. Ask for prayer.
Challenge
Discipline. Fitness. Outreach. Generosity. Prove it.
Report
What did you conquer? What conquered you? Be honest.
Reflection
Scripture. Sermon discussion. Prepare for the week ahead.
As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 27:17
Everything your group needs to stay on fire.
Prompts
Weekly challenges, prayer prompts, and accountability check-ins dropped right into the group chat.
Discipline Score
Every group has a score from 0–100. Chat activity, challenge completion, streaks. Dropped into the chat weekly.
Rankings
Group-vs-group. Man-vs-man. Top performers get free months, merch, and recognition. One brother goes quiet, the whole group drops.
Streaks
Consecutive days of discipline. Bible reading, gym, prayer. Visible to your brothers. Break it and they’ll know.
Weekly Challenges
Fitness, fasting, outreach, scripture. Log it. Compete. Win real prizes.
IRL Meetups
Coffees reimbursed when your group meets in person. Digital sparks the connection. Real life builds it.
No App Needed
Chat lives in iMessage/SMS. The web app handles tracking, leaderboards, and challenges.
Seasonal Tournaments
Quarterly bracket competitions. Groups seeded by score. Themed challenge weeks. Grand prizes for the winners.
For Churches
Sermon → AI prompts. Pastor dashboard. Leader identification. Your men’s ministry on autopilot.
Groups forged around who you actually are.
Pricing
Your brotherhood. Your terms.
- ✓ Matched group of 5
- ✓ AI prompts & challenges
- ✓ Leaderboards & prizes
- ✓ Habit tracking
- ✓ IRL reimbursement
- ✓ Regional matching
Tailored to your congregation.
- ✓ Everything in Individual
- ✓ Sermon → AI prompts
- ✓ Pastor dashboard
- ✓ Leader identification
- ✓ Fees offset cost
- ✓ Onboarding support
Not the right fit? We re-match you.
If your group doesn't click after 8 weeks, we re-match. We preserve the bonds that formed and refresh the rest.
FAQ
Do I need to download an app?+
No. The group chat is iMessage or SMS. The web app handles leaderboards, challenges, and tracking. No app store required.
What denomination?+
All of them. We match on theological style. Charismatic, reformed, non-denominational — no doctrinal landmines.
What if my group doesn’t click?+
After 8 weeks, re-match. We keep the bonds that formed and refresh the rest.
Is what I share private?+
What’s shared in the group stays in the group. We take privacy seriously and are building this with trust as the foundation.
What does the AI do?+
Stoke sends weekly prompts, challenges, leaderboard updates, and nudges into the group chat. It keeps the rhythm going so your group never goes quiet.
Can my church use this?+
Yes. Pastor dashboard, sermon-to-AI prompts, leader identification. Reach out for a custom plan.
Find Your Five.
Take the assessment. Get matched with 4 brothers in Christ.
Take the Assessment